Song writers Joseph Davis Kirkland, Mathew Tyer Musto & Jurek Reunamaki wrote a song titled “One Sided Love” . The first line in the song speaks to poor patient service that so many of us are guilty of “you’re too busy talking over me to hear what I’m saying”. The chorus has another applicable line “And you don’t even notice, do you?” Here is my word of advice; wait till the person speaking completely finishes their sentence, then respond to what was actually said; not what you anticipated. True but not funny I heard an example of this just now, which is why I am creating this module. We’ve just had a record-breaking snowstorm here in Chestermere where I live and work. Here is the conversation between the patient and our Treatment Coordinator (TC).
TC: Wow that was some kind of snowfall last night
Patient: Sure was, it has really kept me busy
TC: Oh (pause) how so
Patient: I have been busy digging (TC speaks over patient)
TC: Yes, it’s impossible to get out of the driveways
Patient: No what we do is dig out (TC speaks over patient)
TC: Cars they are stuck everywhere
Patient: No, we are digging out Fire hydrants
TC: Oh
Patient: They are hard to find too, we have to (TC speaks over patient)
TC: Look on every corner or do you have a map?
Patient: I was going to say use a metal detector
TC: (sounding uninterested) Oh, I guess we should be booking your next appointment
You can only guess how long it took to book the appointment. What should have been a few minutes was dragged out (forever).
TC: When would you like to book the appointment?
Patient: I prefer after (TC speaks over patient)
TC: Afternoons
Patient: I was thinking after 2:00 on Thurs (TC speaks over patient)
TC: How would next Tuesday be?
Patient: Anything on Thursday
TC: You bet how about 10:00 AM
Patient: Nothing around (TC speaks over patient)
TC: Oh yeah you like afternoons
Patient: Yes after 2 (TC speaks over patient)
TC: How does 1:00 sound
Patient: Sound like before 2:00 is that all you have
TC: How about 2:30
Patient: Thanks
Every statement the patient said after this was reduced to one word. I am guessing he felt like I did: no point. It did get interesting when they were saying goodbye. During the (long) conversation the TC mentioned that she would not be here at the booked appointment. When the conversation was coming going to an end, the TC said. Thanks, I will see you on the 22nd. The patient replied I thought you were not going to be here. Oh, I will not, the TC laughed. This patient was booking a Three-Thousand-dollar Implant.
Unfortunately, this is not a made-up story, but the sad truth. This exchange caused me to listen actively listen. TC and patient exchange at the end of each appointment was more than doubled, simply by us being too busy talking to hear. I could not help but think of all the productive things we could be doing rather than doubling our exiting times.
Time to train the team on listening skills!!
And by the way that patient, I will call him this afternoon to confirm his appointment. In our conversation I will let him know I am listening and that we will listen.
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